Feb 23, 2021
This is a special series of episodes where my husband Rob is joining me on the podcast! We are going to dive into a variety of topics about pornography addiction and how it affected both of us in our marriage, how we handled it, and, of course, tips for you. We are excited to give you both sides of the story and some...
Feb 22, 2021
What is a victim mentality? Why do we have it? How do we get rid of it? Why is it such a problem? Today, I'm going to tackle all of these questions with a little tough-lough truth about having a victim mentality. If you are feeling stuck, feeling like you are at the mercy of your husband's pornography addiction, this is...
Feb 15, 2021
My biggest piece of advice that I share for women who have a spouse addicted to pornography is that you should be talking to 3 people: 1: Your spouse. 2: A professional 3: One confidant. But the problem is secrets. Our brain comes up with lots of very important-sounding reasons for us NOT to talk about this, to keep it...
Feb 8, 2021
We have these ideas for how people in our lives ought to behave. Things they "should" and "shouldn't" do. But the problem with this is that then we are constantly comparing the way people show up in our lives with this subconscious list that we've created over the years-and they rarely measure up. This is even true for...
Feb 1, 2021
We are really good at resisting emotion. But it isn't helpful. All it does is keep that emotion right below the surface. Learning how to work through your emotions is crucial if you want something in your life to change because our emotions are the reason behind all of our action. It's so important that we learn how to...